A few weeks ago, in the not-so-cold December of 2014, I lost all my rights to call this city my home. A city that I have actively adored at some points, and hated at some other points in life. I had to leave the country after an imminent death threat following more than 7 years of investment in a career with nonprofits, and more than 2 decades of investments in social relationships. I was gay anyway, and had to eventually leave anyway. But not like this. Not under these circumstances.
Karachi was home to me. I was THE poster boy for love of the city. People knew me from my work, and still recognize us as the trio who successfully rekindled the love of the city in hearts of the young ones, albeit for a short while. Karachi was sea view, and rikshaws and spending time at Gloria endlessly because none of us wanted to go home. Karachi was crying, hugging and kissing in the obscurest of all places, in cars and on rooftops of commercial buildings. Karachi was scary. Karachi was ammi kay haath kay aalu kay parathay, and main chai ka pani rakhne lagi hoon, tum pio gay? Karachi was french fries from Stadium Road McDonalds at 1am, and Falooda from random Jauhar joint at 1230am after one of us got nikah-o-fied. Karachi was automation of life, of Noor Bhai calling me every morning at 8:15 after he’d parked his car outside my house to pick me up for work, and Abrar Bhai knowing exactly how long it will take to get home from Sindhi Muslim Chowrangi after a long day at work.
It hurt like a bitch when all of that was taken away with just one text message.
On December 11, suddenly I didn’t have a home anymore.
I had just gotten back to Pakistan. I wasn’t even over my jetlag yet. I wasn’t even completely back at work, yet. Day 1 was cleaning the house, day 2 was dealing with the electrician and the paint guys because bhayya’s shaadi was coming up soon. Day 3 was back at work and Day 4 was hell.
Not long ago, speaking to her late outside our AirBnB place in Brooklyn late at night, I found myself saying that even though life in Karachi had all: my life, friends, work, family and goals, it was a life I didn’t want. I didn’t know I’d have to give up on Karachi so painfully soon.
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Not long after I had left, someone on Twitter sent me links to various pro-city artsy blogs / Facebook initiatives asking if I was behind any of them.
No, sir. I can’t preach about Karachi’s awesomeness anymore. Those days are long gone.